Disclaimer: You should consult your doctor before beginning this – or any other – diet and exercise plan.
When I describe this diet to people their first reaction is to find a way to cheat. They say, "But what if I..." Look, it's okay with me. I've lost the weight and I keep it off. If you alter the format and your results are less then optimal, it's okay with me - I'm not grading you on this. By the same token, if you alter the diet and get better results, let me know - I'd be happy to include your findings! :)
Mindset:
For this diet (or any other for that matter) to work you need to wrap your head around it. Here, for example, was my mindset:
1. By November 2004 I was 243 lbs and a 44 waist. I knew I had to do something.
2. I first decided that I wouldn't torture myself. I'd wait till January 3rd of the New Year to begin whatever it was I was going to do.
3. I also knew that a "fad" diet (you know, the South Beach Diet, Jenny Craig, etc.) wasn't going to work for me. I didn't have the time or inclination for measuring and so forth.
4. I also knew that whatever I decided to do would have to be something I was willing to do everyday. Men especially tend to be goal setters - and achievers. So, we see weight loss as a goal unto itself. Once accomplished, we can return to our old ways (after all, we did achieve our goal). No, I knew that I needed a lifestyle type alteration.
5. I set a realistic Goal: Lose 60 lbs in 1 year.
Food Knowledge:
Here's a sampling of what to eat and - more importantly - what to stay away from:
Good Foods Contain...
1. Proteins - i.e. chicken breast, steak, eggs
2. Complex Carbs - i.e. fruits and vegetables
3. Nuts - for men in particular - walnuts and almonds. Handful is 5 bites for me. Good mid-afternoon snack.
4. Beverages - water or seltzer - two liters per day. Coffee with cream is okay. If you must have sugar substitute sweet and low for sugar; black is probably easiest.
5. Salad (of course). Focus on "meaty" veggies - i.e. carrots, celery. I find that things with a lot of crunch are helpful mentally/physically so that you think you ate something really filling. I also find that adding two hard-boiled eggs is the kicker for a full lunch that'll carry you through to your next meal.
Okay Foods Contain...
1. Whole Grains - i.e. whole grain bread
2. Some fats - i.e. bacon
3. Condiments - in very limited portions. Mustard is better then ketchup; vinaigrettes are better then ranch dressings. Avoid duck sauce and soy sauce.
4. Spices are good except for salt.
5. Honey - i.e. drizzled on whole grain toast.
6. Butter - in moderation.
Good Once in a while...
1. High protein/Low carb bar - Advent, Met-Rx - small bites (I can get 12-15 out of a large bar). Good breakfast/lunch alternative.
2. Deli Style Slim Jims (I know you think I'm crazy but...). They're 10 bites and, in a pinch, they'll take away the hunger if you're running late to dinner.
Bad Foods Contain white stuff...
1. White (processed) flour - i.e. white bread, cakes
2. White sugar - i.e. cakes, pies, desserts in general, candy
3. Salt
4. Margarine - no man made concoctions! Use butter instead!
Vitamin and exercise knowledge:
From experience I learned that after 40, your metabolism takes a nosedive. And, it seems, we're saturated with information that tells us that we are more susceptible to this and that. With that in mind, here's what I take/do:
1. Everyday vitamins: a multi-vitamin, 1500 mg vitamin C (I increase this by 500 mg at the first hint of a cold) and a baby aspirin.
2. Exercise. Look, here's what I've learned...you've gotta sweat 30 minutes a day 3 days a week (4 is even better). That doesn't mean taking a sauna. It means getting your heart pumping. My preference is running but that's not the only option. There are rowing machines, ellipticals, swimming, etc. You can stick with one - as I tend to do - or mix it up. The only point is - Do It! Altering your eating habits alone is not enough!
Now, to the crux of it: The 90 Bite Diet...
So, the first key is to focus on foods from the Good and Okay groups and refrain from Bad foods.
Start of the day:
1. Get a pad that you can carry around. Keep a running record of your day-to-day progress.
2. First thing in the morning, weigh yourself. Write your weight at the top of the page. This is huge (no pun intended)! It will let you see your progress and, when you slide back on a day, you'll know what you did differently the day before and won't repeat it.
Along those lines, there have been times I've attended a party or indulged for whatever reason. I make a note of that under my weight the next morning so that I have a record of what impacted my progress.
3. Under that write E= on the left corner and V= on the right side of the line. When you Exercise put a check mark next to E=. Similarly, when you take your vitamins, put a check mark next to V=.
4. Underneath that, write 90. Now, at this point, every bite counts. Cramming your mouth with as much food as possible and saying that's a bite is not a bite.
Look, here's a good rule of thumb. When you bite your food, make believe that you're out to dinner with the girl you want to marry. How would you eat in front of her (be honest with yourself!)?
[For you married guys, make believe it was the girl that you were trying to impress who became your wife.] :)
5. As you eat, count the bites and subtract it from 90. When you get to zero, you're out of bites! Tomorrow begins another day.
Do's & Don'ts:
1. Do sit down and eat without distractions. This forces you to be "conscious" of what you're putting in your mouth. You will find yourself eating slower since you’re not in a rush and not distracted.
2. Do eat at consistent times everyday. We are creatures of habit. Whatever your meal times are, stick to them. Otherwise, by the time you eat, you're so hungry that you eat whatever is in sight and you eat too much of it.
3. Do experiment a little. For instance, I learned that I am quite satisfied with a 3 egg omelet (18 bites for me) and I can go right to lunchtime without feeling at all hungry. By comparison, if I have two slices of whole grain toast with butter and honey (12 bites for me), I need a piece of fruit by mid morning (average banana = 10 bites for me).
4. Do try to have three meals with two snacks - to the best of your ability.
5. Don't eat and go right to bed.
6. Don't drink alcohol and beer (high carbs) at least until you get the bulk of the weight off -- why work against yourself? And then, alcohol only in moderation or, build extra workout time in. Beverages i.e. coffee, seltzer, water - don't count toward your bites.
7. To the best of your ability...Don't combine carbs with proteins. If you're having an omelet, avoid having it on a roll or with bread.
8. Do combine proteins - i.e. ham or bacon with eggs.
9. Do take small bites and stretch out your mealtime.
You may notice that I don't concern myself too much with fats but I'm radical about sugars (bad carbs). My experience is that I burn the fat - thanks to exercise - so I don't have to worry about it as much; I just try not to go "hog" wild with them.
Cheats.
Everybody needs a cheat. Here are three that I use:
1. Sugar free Jell-O Gelatin - no carbs! One a day for a snack and I don't count it against my bites.
2. Sugar free Jell-O Pudding (not the no fat type, the no sugar type!) Once in a while - it does count against my bites (8 bites for me).
3. Low carb (3g) Fit and Lively yogurt shakes. One a day - sip it - doesn't count toward bites. Good mid-afternoon snack.
[Obviously you can have ONE of these each day - not all three every day!]
Finally, let's talk about sweets. Personally, my downfalls are cookies and desserts. Believe me, nothing (and I mean No Thing) has been able to stop my voracious appetite for these things. For you it could be beer or potato chips or cheetos or whatever. In most cases though, the nemesis seems to be simple carbs - sugars and refined flour based products. So, what are we to do?
First, as I wrote earlier, exercise! If your routine is running 3 days a week, 40 minutes per run (as mine is), then throw in an extra day when you find yourself indulging.
Also important -- smaller bites and sips! For instance, chocolate chip or Oreo cookies...I'm a freak for these things. I used to eat one cookie in one bite; now I get 4 bites out of one. After a few weeks of doing the bite diet without any cookies, I realized that bites are valuable - especially when you have 90 a day. So, I don't want to waste them on sweets. Two cookies are 8 bites. That gave me a taste without wrecking my day.
Sam Adams. Sammy and I are great buds. (Have you seen this guy's picture? He looks pretty fit!) But, rather then the usual three - no problem - for me, I've got to make one last. The key is sipping instead of gulping.
Another thing: after the first couple of months of practicing this diet I realized that there were certain foods that I ate repeatedly and that I knew the bite count automatically. Here’s the thing – don’t stop counting the bites even if you know the bite count!
Here’s why (and a big secret of this diet’s success): first, what constitutes a bite for you may be different then what my bite is.
Also, counting your bites actually helps you to slow down. You become a “conscious” eater. Since you are not distracted by outside factors – conference calls, driving, etc – you see how and what you eat. Now that you’re forced to take a hard look at yourself your tendency is to do the right thing – i.e. not gobbling down your meal in a minute. Memorizing the bites and automatically deducting them only allows you to maintain unhealthy eating habits.
Here’s a personal example: I know that a hard boiled egg is 6 bites but when I’m not paying attention, I tend to eat it in 4 bites. That means I’m taking larger bites and rushing my meal. End result – I’m looking for food before my next scheduled mealtime. Totally self-defeating!
I know that starting and maintaining a diet and exercise plan is a very personal thing. It can be embarrassing and intimidating. Here’s what I did to deal with that: I told people! Initially, when people heard what diet plan I was following, they laughed at me! They (beginning with my family) thought I was ridiculous! But believe it or not, that bit of loving ridicule actually helped me in my resolve to succeed. And guess what...after the first 40 pounds, they stopped laughing.
Life itself also makes it very difficult. To begin with your schedule is already pretty full so stopping to focus on eating and exercise means juggling your responsibilities. Plus, eating is not something you can just stop doing – like smoking or drinking alcohol. But, if you make the resolve, you will succeed.
Success also means developing new habits (or relearning old ones). Here I can help a bit. When I want to develop a new habit I set a goal of practicing it for ninety days (Wow! Ninety bites...ninety days? Hmmmm...) It’s up to me to be aware and stop myself whenever I make a mistake. By the end of ninety days I’m pretty much on my way to success.
Wishing you the best of luck, Bill Mazzacca


